What my Mama taught me!

mom-tattooSo I got an email with the “challenge” to write a post for Mother’s Day, about what I have learnt from my mom. I have and why wait till mother’s day, all of the following is how I feel most of the year.

Ok so this could be the longest list in the world, most of what I know came from her, spiced with the adventures of adult life, but the foundation was created in childhood, from her.

I don’t want to go all Forest Gump here, mostly because when eating a box of chocolates I usually don’t taste med, I stuff them… anyway…

We are 5 siblings and as I sit with my 2 girls inhaling coffee, my respect for her grows – how the hell did she do it!?!

But we all turned out great, doing awesome things in life, traveling, studying, creating and she taught us that well. I can barely keep up with 2 girls and some days I fear that I am mostly teaching them how to cover insomnia with concealer.

So how do you learn? I remember what she did and being so proud of her. She aimed for things, she seldom sat back feeling sorry for herself. She took chances and got things done (with at least 1 kid on her hip), she did her best, and laughed a lot. She wore the biggest glasses man ever made and her hair matched.

She told us to do what we dreamed of, to travel the world and experience as much as we could. She taught us to do the dishes and cook and to always wear clean underwear when going somewhere.

She taught us love and never ever sent us out the door without knowing how much she loved us. She taught us what is possible if you want it, even on your own with a sh** load of kids.

She taught us that not knowing is ok and that vulnerability is a part of it all. She taught us that there is always two sides to a story. She taught us that Henna dyes your hair orange no matter what color you think you bought.

She taught us to be grateful for what we had and I am so grateful I had her.

I bow in respect for the woman and what I have learnt continues to unfold as I go about in life. I am happy to have the skills and the ability to ask (mostly her) if I don’t.

I love you dearly mom and thank you for being my role model.

 

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  • Janet

    Sounds like you had a great mom! It must have been fun growing up with her.
    Janet

  • SueKearney

    Carina, How lovely. I’m so glad that you had this!! I didn’t, and have been having an adult life full of healing and forgiveness… My poor mom didn’t have much love when she grew up, and she didn’t have it to give. Lucky for me, I was able to release and relearn just about everything in time for me to turn around my relationship with my own daughter. Broke the chain, yo…

    Grateful to have read this!
    xoxox
    Sue

  • Nadia

    Carina, this is beautiful. Thank you for sharing. Lots of love in that post
    :-)

  • Veewise

    Carina you had a great darling mom. Thanks for sharing.

  • http://terigoetz.com Teri Goetz

    what a beautiful tribute to your mother! I’m sure with your attitude, your kids feel the same way!

  • Linda Joy

    Carina, beautiful… Especially this sacred gift that she gave you. “She taught us that not knowing is ok and that vulnerability is a part of it all”